holy contract..

I'am not talking about contract of business or law or what so ever...me talking about marriage.
why???maybe because of my age that keep on increasing every year gain me self realization that I'am
no longer teenager..still in my youth but whether I'am ready or not, sooner or later I must take a step into marriage..


kay..done with the not- so-needed introduction..hoho ..errr how to start unravelling the contract that most of us want it to last forever..actually I'am not an expert or experienced in marriage life..I know a bit from my class lectures. this semester I took parenting and family management subject as an extra curricular during the weekend. so far I learned a lot from it and what I got here is what I want to share with you..


marriage in Islam define as a contract between a male and female to enjoy each other
(pardon e word enjoy..I just write down whatever my lecturer translate from his Arabic book..)
so cont..ermm in bigger context it is a contract that comes together with responsibility and understanding plus gaining legal permission to makes what is haram (sex-intercourse b4 marriage) to halal.


my ustaz said..if u do everything together b4 marriage..then afterwards everything will be tasteless..(personally I think it is true since I'am myself easily get bored :) )


next please!!!
hehe....criteria for husband and wife:
@religiosity
@ethics


those who hold a strong grip to the religion will be a good husband. if he or she has both religiosity and ethics, they make a perfect soulmate for each and any of us..but but but..when u found someone who has both but has no job (especially for men) euwwww....what do u expect from them?? what will u eat later on?? then..children with hunger and so thin or dripping saliva..no no no..so their finance must be stable or at least they have a steady job. remember!!


the most important part that most younger generation nowadays do not know is the right preparation for marriage. if u happens to love someone or interested, my advice to you is..(ecececeh..hehe kalah prof) don't just simply propose to them or confess ur feeling. better keep to ur self. Islam did not encourage any Muslim (both male and female) to confess prior to the significant if protecting your heart from being broken. remember..never confess!!!protect ur dignity and ur pride. the way to do so is by asking someone u trust to tell the person's besty to convey the message. hmppphh..sound much better at if it happens that one side reject the other, at least not in front of ur face.


here is the right way to propose:
1.al-khitbah
-the visits of the boy's family to the girl's  house.
(in malay we called it merisik)
2.contract of nikah
-at the masjid
-court (authority/judge/representative)
-make sure it is documented to avoid future problem.
3.day of nikah(hari perkahwinan)




ps: do you know that actually marriage is the second most important contract in life as a human being after shahadah.

Black Silk

 

done!!!!!!

what a success I think..hahahaaha..

in short..I can say that this book is woooowww!!!

totally amazing..using very simple language..

mystical in a lighter way...

the were-panther handsome man

have such manner and charm that any woman I bet

can't never resist and say ''NO'' to him..

OMG..I admire such man like Cole...

but of course in this story he only set his eyes and heart

to Victoria..or ''mouse'' her nickname...

to be honest.. ^_^

the title didn't actually attract my attention to read..

but..I read it because I accidentally open it..

after that i realize...we can't judge the book by its cover..

hahaha..the sayings are indeed true...

ENOUGH LA...malas nak explain panjang2 dah...

to conclude,,..I LIKE  [100x]!!!!!!!

a merry heart :] part II

yeay!!!!! finish!!!!!
i really thought it was  all about a portrayal of family problems and those two little girls, but actually there is a little sweet innocent love story there for Laurie , Brady and Alden. well..Laurie is a very religious christian girl..most of her x boyfriend dump her for that fact. she indeed never complain but then become more secure about the idea of getting marriage and having a close relationship with others. she knew Alden since she was a kid and I can say that he is her childhood friend who always protect  her and be there for her. for Alden, Laurie is her her first love but he also afraid to confess to her earlier for he afraid of losing his best friend. another guy name Brady came and work along with Alden. that make thing more difficult. Laurie was uncertain and trying to resist her feeling to Brady because she afraid that handsome fellow might be some sort of womanizer. so both guy were actually fighting to win her heart but giving her liberty of making decision. then she had to choose. at first I'm on Alden side..hehehe...but then I understand why Laurie chose Brady.
here some sweet love quotes....hehe [nak jugak feeling]

“You don’t have to play fair when you fall in love.
I’ve never felt like this before, and you won’t let me throw
my hat in the air, so you get lots of kissing.” -Brady

When you love someone all you really want is for
them to be happy.”-Alden

“ you’ve been like a bright light that
came into my life. I can’t imagine having to spend another
day without you.''- Brady

''When I’m with Alden, what he says makes sense but when
I’m with Brady, he seems so sincere and honest. I’m so
confused and don’t know what to believe.”-Laurie

so, no one knows what best for herself. we always get confused over everything.
sometimes do what the thing that you think is right. follow what your heart says.
well this story makes realized that we always need someone to be by our side,
to support and encourage.life will be meaningful when you have a companion.

a merry heart :]

 

                                                                                                                                                                     last nite boredom was killing me..so I'm craving for something to read but yet I realized I have nothing there like novels..bcoz I'm growing tired of reading online mangas...so I found this website that makes me feel delight..very delightful...bcoz I found all those popular published novel where I can get it for free without purchasing...well im saving my money for daily expenses..of course I can't afford even one book... 

I've downloaded many books..but I started with this one as the title capture my eyes...and it turned out I made a right decision...here's the review of the story~~~~~

it is an inspiring story about children who's had been neglected by their parents. the main character was Laurie who was abandoned by her mother. Laurie works at a foster home namely BENTLEY HOUSE..he found and took care children that was having the same situation as her. abandoned and totally neglected or maybe have broken family. the story highlighted  about two unfortunate girls, SUSAN and ANNABELLE. Susan was a product of broken family, having father drunk all the time and mother who always change partner. while Annabelle lost her father without knowing the reasons and lived alone with disable grandmother. Her mother also married another man. she was taken to the foster home for better living and protection until the police found her missing father. that's all I can say because I've just read it halfway..not done yet....but if I were to rated this book, I will surely gave 5 stars for the very realistic contemporary issues and lifestyles that the writer showed in this story. enough already..hehe...read it yourself and feel the enjoyment!!!!!